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Don’t waste your Pandemic time: for home workers

Posted by Tom LarsenApr 1, 2020 Gratitude, Making Choices 4

This past weekend as I was watching all the efforts to try to anticipate tomorrow and next week and next month relative to the Covid-19 Pandemic, I found myself discovering that it is not realistic when humanity is in the midst of a pandemic to be able to forecast the future. There is no actual way to “predict” much of anything. We desperately want to “know” where this experience is going, when it will peak and when it will be over. We may be more used to crises like hurricanes, floods or geologic events which tend to have pretty defined beginnings, middles and endings. This Covid-19 experience does not work on a schedule. It’s more of a flow.

 

Covid-19 is not like an event. It’s a live virus doing its thing infecting humans. Unfortunately, the lack of a common understanding of global experiences with pandemics like this amplifies humanity’s desire for ever more predictability. We can no more predict the snowfall for 2021 or the next earthquake in California or Japan and yet, we work so hard to box up Covid-19 and make the future known and predictable.

 

Here is my suggestion. In these past two years after losing my wife to cancer, I have learned the reality that we humans spend an awful lot of time trying to figure out tomorrow and the future almost always at the expense of living today. What if we elevate our expectations? What keeps us at this moment from choosing to expand our contact practices, not physically, electronically? Not those contacts you’ve already made. Those were easy. What if each day you invested one email, one text or one phone call to someone you care about? What if you touched someone meaningfully every day? What if instead of receiving and occasionally responding in social or other media you made a concerted effort to create one to one contact with a person?

 

I can tell you from my own recent past, that outreach is incredibly welcome. Here is what I know having lived through this last personal life-changing event.

 

At some point, the virus loses and humanity wins (survives). Tons of us. Millions and millions of us actually. Likely greater than 99% of us! At that point when the “return to normal” is in the air, and this once in a century type of event is behind us, what will you be able to say you did with all this extra time at home? How will you say you have grown? How will you remember having invested your time during the 2020 Pandemic?

 

On a personal level, I don’t want to spend these next few weeks trying to figure out how soon it will be over. Choose to make this a mindful time to remain connected, in fact, extend your connections. What if we can all say we became CLOSER through this separation? What a gift that would be for everyone.

  • I enjoyed today’s blog post, Tom.
    I feel like I am successfully navigating through this shelter-in-place time, bonding with some family and friends I’ve never had time or energy to engage with. Making time for 2 short daily workouts, one with mother one with daughter…we do much more cooking with family, and even creating some art. Also picked up some on-line learning, and some work, of course….8 hrs a day ( in and out, because there isn’t much going on).
    Big hug from the UK. Keep on posting, much appreciated work!

    • Guaranteed if you think you’re succeeding, you’re succeeding. Delighted to hear you’re making it work. I’m not surprised in the least. Keep up the good spirits. It’s only time before this is behind us.

  • Tom, thanks for the well worded message on our present situation and how we, collectively need to move forward, each and everyday, making contact with our family, friends and business colleagues. The simplest thing like phone call with a voice that’s familiar or reassuring is priceless. People need people, kindness and empathy are undefeated, they’ve never lost. Thank you, your words and advice are what I needed today.

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